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		<title><![CDATA[ 和小倩《绿野仙踪》 ]]></title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-line-height-alt: 15.0pt" align="left"><strong><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: #494949; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">万里长空一目收，层峦似浪掩风流。</span></strong></p>
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<p>寒江冷月对谁吟</p>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 应社——五律.秋 ]]></title>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 论中国教育之误区 ]]></title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="center"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> <span style="COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">论中国教育之误区</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">据</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">《羊城晚报》</span><span style="COLOR: #2a2a2a; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">报道，</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">广东省东莞市有几位家长带着就读幼儿园的孩子给老师行跪拜礼表示感恩，引发不小争议。</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">事实上，学生向教师行跪拜礼是中国古代教育的一个优良传统，是重师敬道的表现，是学生或弟子对于孔子和先生尊敬的礼仪，无需大惊小怪。由此不得不让笔者产生深思和感叹—中国教育早已步入误区？</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">师者，所以传道、授业、解惑也！古人一语道出教育的精髓。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">中国是个拥有几千年东方文化的文明古国，</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">中国是有悠久历史的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/48502.htm" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#3366CC">礼仪</font></span></span></a>之帮</span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">，中国在三千多年前的商朝就有了自己的文字（</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/8170.htm" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#3366CC">甲骨文</font></span></span></a></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">）。在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/50467.htm" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#3366CC">先秦</font></span></span></a></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">时代，中国就有了孔子、</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/2237.htm" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#3366CC">老子</font></span></span></a></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">等伟大的思想家。比如《</span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/16516.htm" target="_blank"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><span lang="EN-US"><font color="#3366CC">道德经</font></span></span></a></span><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; LETTER-SPACING: 0.4pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">》《诗经》《春秋》《论语》四大名著等。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">为什么诺贝尔奖至今竟没有一个中国国籍受中国教育的人获得？是值得我们深思的时候了！<span lang="EN-US"><br style="mso-special-character: line-break"></span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 26.25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5"><span style="COLOR: #555555; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">反观今天中国的教育 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>从幼儿教育、基础教育、高等教育 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>到职业教育 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>尽管它们遇到的问题各式各样 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>但有一点却相似 <span lang="EN-US">:</span>人们仿佛被编织进<span lang="EN-US">“</span>适者生存<span lang="EN-US">”</span>的逻辑中而身不由己、难以自拔。看来 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>这已不是个人的选择和偏好所能左右的了 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>也不是靠局部的修修补补所能奏效的了 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>它只有通过彻底反省并调适我们的教育理念 <span lang="EN-US">,</span>才有可能找到摆脱危机的出路。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 26.25pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">自封建王朝以来，八股文章不直毒害了多少有贤能才干的才人，而在<span lang="EN-US">21</span>世纪的今天，这种愚昧落后的应试教育还在禁锢着学生的个性，扼杀着学生的想象力，许多人说在素质教育，然而，真的做到了吗？没有！！我们学生在学什么？学习是为了什么？在这里，学习是为了考试！为了有文凭！根本不注重能力！这样培养出来的高分低能的学生根本无法在社会上立足的！今年某县被北大遣送回来的学生竟然是因为一出校门由于认不得路得让警察送回学校就是个让人感叹的例子。<span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 先从<span style="COLOR: #555555">基础教育说起，小学要读五年甚至六年，在这五六年之中到底学了些啥？单版本就有</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><font face="Times New Roman">18</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">套</span><span style="COLOR: #555555; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">，十本书要花一年的时间，但竟然让人奇怪的是没有开设礼仪课和爱国主义课程。</span><span style="COLOR: #555555; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">对古典文学除了背几首唐诗外啥内容也没有，诗、词、歌、赋、对联等所有古典文学的基本写作知识一点也没有。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">学生除了会死记硬背，重复和崇拜前人的知识，什么也不会干！！！这难道不是中国教育的悲哀吗？中学生呢？写作水平之低劣，让人哑然！国家花费大量的人力财力用于培养英语人才，又有几个能学以致用？这难道不是一种巨大的浪费？<span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 再说<span style="COLOR: #555555">高等教育和职业教育，</span>小学捆脚和腿。中学捆身子和手。大学捆头。捆的你完全动不了，再发给你一张证书。完全没有创新精神，这样的学生是一台为家长为老师工作的机器，各个学者，成功人士不能说是完全没有才能，但至少有相当的一部分是徒有虚名。学习，培养和经验是人类获得成功的必要条件，然而是这样吗？其实真正阻碍中国教育发展的正是当前的教育体制！<span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 教育分<span lang="EN-US">3</span>个阶段：<span lang="EN-US">1</span>道德教育 <span lang="EN-US">2</span>能力教育 <span lang="EN-US">3</span>知识教育。而我国却将这个顺序掉了个，甚至完全没有道德教育，多么可怕的现实。目前，老师与家长的任务，就是将学生的个性磨掉砍光，他们所做的事决不能越出他们所制定的框架一步，全部的学生全部按照统一方法做事，哼！这样教育出的人全部都是庸才！目前，学校并不只是创造人才的地方，甚至可以毁灭人！这样的现状着实另人汗颜<span lang="EN-US">!</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">务学以立人为本，可惜现在的课堂以应试为本，以纯粹的知识为本，机械似的灌输，完全没有提高学生道德上的修养，和文化上的熏陶，所以现在国人素质如此之低，</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">&nbsp; 现代中国的应试教育、学历教育从其本质上来看，是渊源于隋唐时期的科举制度。宋代奠定了三年一次的三级考试制度，乡试、省试（会试）、殿试，那时的读书人也是考啊考，耗尽了心血，熬白了头发，天天摇头晃脑地死记硬背《论语》《中庸》《大学》等等，直背的天昏地暗、飞沙走石<span lang="EN-US">……</span>，<span lang="EN-US">“</span>三十老明经，五十少进士<span lang="EN-US">”</span>，也就是说<span lang="EN-US">50</span>岁能考中进士还算年轻的了！有一位老先生都须发皆白了，终于中了进士，不料大喜之下，竟然疯了，这就是世所流传的<span lang="EN-US">“</span>范进中举<span lang="EN-US">”</span>的故事。科举是封建社会的统治者选拔官吏的一个重要途径，也是拢络知识分子，粉饰太平的手段之一。科举重考试，中国现行教育体制更重视考试，这种惊人的相似性，隐藏着一种历史上传统的沿革与继承，但这两种教育制度严重忽略的却是学生的专业水平、实际能力与综合素质的培养与锻炼。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">&nbsp; 教育的目的第一位乃是传道，也就是传承本民族的精神和传统，使之发扬光大，历久不衰，这是教育的长远的、根本的目的。这个目的不是教给学生认几个字、解几道题就能解决的。为人师者首先必须自己有道，信道，才能传道，如果我们今天的教师自己都不爱国，他怎么能教给学生爱国？更可怕的是如果所聘教师不仅不爱国，而且还对自己的国家抱有成见，如何能教育出爱国的学生呢？这样的教师教出来的学生不仅不爱国，将来还会反对自己的国家，我们的教育意义在哪里呢？所以在招聘教师的过程中并不是会做题，会上课就可以的。教师是一个国家的重要人物，担负着培养国家未来的重任，不是什么人都可以做的。时下新闻所披露的件件素质低下的教师的卑劣行径不能不让我们震惊！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">教育是心灵的艺术，首先需要有爱心、热爱教育的人，没有爱心，不爱教育，只是通过教育的手段来赚钱，或者是只看短期效应，应付高考中考，这不是一个小问题，它影响的是国家未来的发展和社会的安定。现在我们已经尝到了这种应试教育的后果了，一个又一个<span lang="EN-US">“</span>马加爵<span lang="EN-US">”</span>的出现告诉我们什么？为什么物质的极大丰富而现在的孩子却不幸福呢？中华民族的优良传统在孩子们的身上还能看到多少？我们不断地发出疑问：现在的孩子怎么了？殊不知正是我们对教育的肆意践踏造成了今天的恶果，悲哀！中国教育是到了走出误区的时候了。为了我们的孩子、为了中华民族的未来！</span></p> ]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0" align="center"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">漫谈对联教学</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">中华名族历史悠久，有着极为丰富的文化遗产。这些文化遗产都是古代劳动人民辛勤创造的宝贵财富，是祖先们的聪明和智慧的结晶。对联就是其中独具风格的一种艺术，是祖国文化艺术园中的一朵奇葩。它源远流长，丰富多彩，素为人们喜闻乐见。对联是我们民族的一种传统文化形式，它以句式整齐，声韵和谐，意蕴丰富，琅琅上口，具有广泛的实用性和欣赏价值。在风景名胜，亭台楼阁之上，常有名人的题咏以写景抒怀；在逢年过节，婚丧嫁娶之时，人们都要贴上对联以寄托情意。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">对联由上联（也叫上句或出句）和下联（亦称下句或对句）两部分组成。对联的基本特征是：上下联字数相等，结构相同，对仗工整，平仄协调，上联尾字仄声，下联尾字平声。对联分宽对和严对，宽对对词性平仄不作太严的要求。对联有正对、反对、串对三种方式。正对，指对偶的两个句子意思相近或相同，如“宝剑锋从磨砺出，梅花香自苦寒来”，“无边落木萧萧下，不尽长江滚滚来”。反对，是指对偶的两个句子含义相反或相对，如“横眉冷对千夫指，俯首甘为孺子牛”，“有关家国书常读，无益身心事莫为”。串对<span lang="EN-US">:</span>又称<span lang="EN-US">"</span>流水对<span lang="EN-US">"</span>，上下句之间具有某种因果、承接、主次等逻辑关系。如</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">“聚来千亩雪；化作万家春”，“四面湖山收眼底，万家忧乐到心头。”<span lang="EN-US"><br></span>一、 对联的起源 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 对联的起源可追溯到唐以后的五代时期。后蜀主孟昶于归宋前之岁除日，题桃符于寝门云：“新年纳余庆，嘉节号长春。”此为传世第一联。到了宋代，春联还是叫桃符；直到明朝开国之初，人们才开始用红纸写春联，称之为春联。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">王安石诗中“千门万户</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">曈曈</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">日，总把新桃换旧符”之句，就是当时盛况的真实写照。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">明朝对联大师解缙，一生不知作过多少妙联，令人赞叹不已。其中有这样一副用药用植物作的对联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">蒲叶桃叶葡萄叶，草本木本；</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">梅花桂花玫瑰花，春香秋香。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">此副对联，初看极平常，并无别致惊人之语，但细一琢磨品析，方知“柳暗花明”之妙，实属一副奇联巧对。奇在何处？奇在上联的蒲、桃两种药用植物名，恰好与第三种药用植物名“葡萄”同音，而蒲属草本植物，桃和葡萄属木本植物，故“草本”在前，“木本”在后，以相呼应。巧在何处？巧在对下联中，梅和桂也是两种植物药名，恰好与第三种“玫瑰”药用植物也是同音。梅花于冬末春初开放，桂花和玫瑰花于夏秋时节开放，故照应上句“春香秋香”。真可谓对得奇巧奥妙，名不虚传。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">北宋大文豪苏东坡在<span lang="EN-US">60</span>岁时被流放到广东海南，路过湘南时遇到一姓柳的郎中，交谈中得知郎中学识渊博，精通医药。郎中见东坡才华横溢，气度非凡，因此出一药联，请东坡对出下联。东坡哈哈一笑，欣然应允。郎中出联：“仙鹤弹琵琶（枇杷）高奏神曲”，东坡略作思索，对曰：“雷公敲木瓜休惊云母。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">郎中又出一联：“红孩儿戴红花吃红豆”，东坡不假思索对曰：“白头翁摘白梅尝白果。”</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">郎中再出一联：“何首乌身披穿山甲，骑地龙，挥大戟，与木贼战百合”，东坡即对曰：“吴茱萸头戴金银花，坐河车，握仙茅，比草寇（蔻）胜五倍”。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">郎中听后连声称道：“奇才，奇才！”<span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: #666666"><br></span><span style="COLOR: #666666">二、 对联的特点 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 对联 雅称「楹联」，俗称对子。对联必须具备以下特点： <span lang="EN-US"><br>
1</span>、要字数相等，断句一致。除有意空出某字的位置以达到某种效果外，上下联字数必须相同，不多不少。 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
2</span>、要平仄相合，音调和谐。传统习惯是「仄起平落」，即上联末句尾字用仄声，下联末句尾字用平声。 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
3</span>、要词性相对，位置相同。一般称为「虚对虚，实对实」，就是名词对名词，动词对动词，形容词对形容词，数量词对数量词，副词对副词，而且相对的词必须在相同的位置上。 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
4</span>、要内容相关，上下衔接。上下联的含义必须相互衔接，但又不能重覆。 此外，张挂的对联，传统作法还必须直写竖贴，自右而左，由上而下，不能颠倒。 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>与对联紧密相关的横批，可以说是对联的题目，也是对联的中心。好的横批在对联中可以起到画龙点睛、相互补充的作用。 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>根据对联特点分析对联一则： <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>万里山河添异彩 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>千年历史写新篇 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>这副对联，上下联都是七字；上下联的词性排列都是数词、名词、名词、动词、形容词、名词；上联的平仄分布是“仄仄平平平仄仄”，下联是“平平仄仄仄平平”；上联末字仄声，下联末字平声；上下联讲的是新的历史时期呈现出万紫千红的景象，内容紧密相关；上下联的结构都是“定——主——谓——宾”式；其节奏都是前四（字）后三（字）。 <span lang="EN-US"><br style="mso-special-character: line-break">
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-line-height-alt: 13.5pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">三、</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">对联的句法与结构</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">对联除了要做到对仗和谐，平仄合理，节奏有致，词性相近，还要注意对联的句法问题。句法问题，实质就是语法的逻辑问题，句法不通，即使联句意义再好，也难为佳句，这是属对中不可忽视的一个问题。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">常见的对联<span lang="EN-US">(</span>短联<span lang="EN-US">)</span>句法，大致有以下几种类型：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一、并列关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">上下联在形式上平行并列，语气一致，上下联分别从两个不同的角度说明同一个事物，以表示同一主题的称为并列关系，这种形式的联语常在句中用“也”、“又”、“既……又”等，也可以不用关联，不用关联词，称意合法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">看游俊作成都武侯祠联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">两表酬三顾</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">一对足千秋</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">作者抓住最能表现诸葛亮形象的两个方面，“两表”<span lang="EN-US">(</span>即《前、后出师表》<span lang="EN-US">)</span>，</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">“一对”<span lang="EN-US">(</span>《隆中对》<span lang="EN-US">)</span>，对诸葛亮进行了歌颂。表现了他超人的才智和非凡的功绩。联语语言精炼，条理清楚，出语惊人。此类对联，浓笔重彩．形象鲜明，但如果处理不当，会有单调和重复累赘之弊。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">二、连贯关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-line-height-alt: 13.5pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">上下联按时间顺序叙述连续的事件，或者按意义上的承接关系构成，称连贯关系，关联词多用“已……又……”、“才……又……”等。例如：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">台湾省已归日本</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">颐和园又搭天棚</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">甲午战争以后，清政府被逼将台、澎列岛割让日本，其后有些人主张办海军以图强，可慈禧却把海军的公款拿去建供她个人享乐用的颐和园，国人无不气愤，有人写出上联予以讽刺。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">三、递进关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">对句和出句的关系从小而大，由浅入深，由表及里，这种关系被称为递进关系。常用的关联词有“况”、“更”、“不但……而且”等。如一理发店联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">不教白发催人老</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">更喜春风吹面生</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">在叙事层次上，下联比上联更深一层，下联化用白居《草》中诗歌句“春风吹又生”，寓意尤浓，此为联句的高妙之处。有的联省去表示递进关系的关联词，而并不减其递进的意思。如一旅社联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">进门都是客</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">到此即为家</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">联话末用关联词，但仍是表示一种递进关系，放入此类。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">四、假设关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">出句提出假设，对句作出结论，这种句法关系称假设关系，常用的关联词有“若”、“如”、“便”、“如果……就”、“要是……就”等等。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">如启功所撰一联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">若能杯水如名淡</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">应信村茶比酒香</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">上联出句提出假设，对句推出结果，意思是说如果能将名利视为杯水一样清淡，你会觉得农家的清茶胜过酒的香醇。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">五、条件关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">即出句提出条件，对句得出结果，这种句法关系就是条件关系。例如：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">多勤寡欲</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">益寿延年</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">天地入胸臆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">文章生风雷</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">略翻书数则</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">便不愧三餐</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">“多勤寡欲”是条件，“益寿延年”是结果，只有条件具备才能达成结果。以上三联均属此类。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">六、转折关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">出句推出条件，对句却从相反的方向去叙说，称转折关系。这种句法在对联中很常见。常用关联词“但”、“却”、“然”等，但也有不用者。如一理发店联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">虽为毫末技艺</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">却是顶上功夫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">上联“毫末技艺”在于抑，下联“顶上功夫”，意在扬。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">再如：翁同</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">龢</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">自题联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">文章真处性情见</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">谈笑深时风雨来</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">此联虽未用关联词，不难看出仍为转折关系。两种境界有弥缕之感，但其转折处却是山回路转，柳暗花明。关联词的取舍，全在于作者对内容的处理以及作者的文辞好恶，此无定法。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">七、选择关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">上下句分别说两件事，表示二者择一，称为选择关系或称取舍关系。常用“宁……不……”、“与其……不如……”、“但”、“不”等，如：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">宁为玉碎</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">不为瓦全</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">联句以“宁……不……”关联直抒胸臆，表现出刚正不阿，一身正气的英雄气概。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">再如一婚联：</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">但求天长地久</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">何必朝相暮依</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">可以看出，这是一对身居两地的新婚夫妇，为表达爱情的真挚而撰写的对联。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">八、因果关系</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br>
<br></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">出句和对句分别推出原因和结果的关系。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-fareast-font-family: 仿宋_GB2312">&nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">—般出句讲原因、理由，对句讲结果、或做出结论，但也有倒装者。</span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.0"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">四、对联的种类和形式 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 对联的种类约分为春联、喜联、寿联、挽联、装饰联、行业联、交际联和杂联（包括谐趣联<span lang="EN-US">....</span>）等。 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>对联文字长短不一，短的仅一、两个字；长的可达几百字。对联形式多样，有正对、反对、流水对、联球对、集句对等。我们仅谈常用的正对、反对和串对。 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
1</span>、 正对。上下联内容相似或者相关（即只有一面性）的对联。如： <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>松竹梅岁寒三友 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>桃李杏春风一家（上下联内容相似） <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<br></span>爆竹声声喜庆丰收岁 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>梅花朵朵笑迎跃进年（上下联内容相关） <span lang="EN-US"><br>
2</span>、 反对。所谓反对，顾名思义，就是上下联意思相反。因为内容相反，就形成了上 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>下联的鲜明对比，引人注目，能收到更好的艺术效果。如： <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>破千年旧俗 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>立一代新风 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<br></span>红日消残雪，反动派同悲末路 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>曙光照征途，无产者共向未来 <span lang="EN-US"><br>
3</span>、 串对。串对又叫流水对。它的特点是一个意思分成两句来说，其实两句是一个整体 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>上下联独立起来都没有意义，至少是意义不全。串对的上下联一般都有因果、连贯、递进，条件假设等关系。如：</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体">莫愁前路无知己 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>西出阳关多故人（因果关系） <span lang="EN-US"><br>
<br></span>除夕刚饮祝捷酒 <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>新年又看报春花（连贯关系） <span lang="EN-US"><br></span>正对、反对和串对，什么时候该用哪一种，要根据内容的需要与可能去选择。</span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19.2pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 仿宋_GB2312; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><font face="宋体" color="#000000">五、此外，对联的创作也讲究辞格的运用。常用的辞格有以下几种：</font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
1</span>、拆合格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br></span>就是利用汉字偏旁的拆分和组合来构成对联，例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span> &nbsp;</span>闲看门中月；思耕心上田</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 古木枯，此木成柴；女子好，少女尤妙</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
2</span>、镶名格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
&nbsp;</span>就是在对联中巧妙地镶入人名或地名或事物名，例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span> 月照纱窗，个个孔明诸（角）葛亮；风送幽香，郁郁畹华梅兰芳</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span> 两舟并进，橹速（鲁肃）不如帆快（樊哙）；八音齐奏，笛清（狄青）难比箫和（萧何）</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;3</span>、烦暑最宜淡竹叶；伤寒尤妙小柴胡（内含中药材名）</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
3</span>、急转格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span>就是对联的上下半联中间各自的意思向反面突然转变。例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span> &nbsp;</span>闲人免进贤人进；盗者莫来道者来</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></span> 爱民若子，金子银子皆吾子也；执法如山，钱山靠山岂非山乎</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
4</span>、回文格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span>就是对联的上下联各自倒读和顺读完全一样，例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 雾锁山头山锁雾；天连水尾水连天（厦门鼓浪屿联）</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 客上天然居，居然天上客（乾隆出）；人过大佛寺，寺佛大过人（纪晓岚对）</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
5</span>、拟人格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 就是利用拟人手法构成的对联，例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> 鸦叫鹊鸣，并立枝头谈风雨；燕来雁往，相逢路上话春秋</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span> &nbsp;</span>自在飞花轻似梦，无边丝雨细如愁</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
6</span>、反诘格</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span>就是利用反问形成对联，例如：</font></font> <font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US"><br>
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;</span>经忏可超生，难道阎罗怕和尚？金钱能赎罪，居然菩萨是贪官。</font></font></span></span></p>
<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 19.2pt"><font color="#000000"><font face="宋体"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</span></span> <font size="3">对联最讲究凝练。有<span lang="EN-US">“</span>一字千金，字字千金<span lang="EN-US">”</span>之说。用少数的字词去表达丰富的内容。这就要求我们平时多<span lang="EN-US">“</span>炼<span lang="EN-US">”</span>字，多<span lang="EN-US">“</span>炼<span lang="EN-US">”</span>句。能用四个字表达清楚的绝不用五个字。能用五个字表达好的绝不用六个字。最有效的方法是多看古典诗词。多想多琢磨。做到<span lang="EN-US">“</span></font><font size="3">厚积而薄发</font><font size="3"><span lang="EN-US">”</span>。</font></font></font></p>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 玉楼春——沉痛悼念好友梦冰 ]]></title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'times new roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'times new roman'">玉搂春</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'">别友</span></p>
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<p><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'">海棠垂泪西风烈，杨柳哀哀绢似雪。人生自古恨常多，此恨难关风和月。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'mso-hansi-font-family:'">离歌无语怎相接？半曲能将肠寸裂。今将此恨剪千节，提酒吟诗哭永别。</span></p> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 祝月光生日快乐 ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2803.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 16px">银链浩苍天，色流四海间。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 16px">月飘欺琥珀，光舞透轩帘。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 16px">生感君洁著，日觉思尔颜。</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt"><br></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 16px">快时催马急，乐此寄管弦。</font></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><a href="http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/user.html"><img height="160" src="http://images.blog.tom.com/userface/74/62/c7fb67/6708b7baa0c38a989a4734f3.jpg?rdm=1219114438" width="160" border="0"></a></span></p> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 红颜(转) ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2797.html</link>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <font color="#FF00FF">红颜，在身体渴望之外。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;能做红颜知己的必是女人中的精品。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;能拥有红颜知己的必是男人中的智者。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;揭开红颜知己的面纱，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;确切的解释不过是女性知己而已&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;——一个与你在精神上独立、灵魂上平等，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;并能够达成深刻共鸣的女性朋友。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;而不单单是让你一味倾诉烦恼的情绪垃圾桶，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;或者在外面的世界受了伤害才倦鸟望归的巢穴。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;同性知己尚且难求，红颜知己自然更是珍品中的珍品，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;更需要用心用情维护。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;她可以是善良的智慧的尖刻的甚至庸俗的，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;但必定善解人意——能够理解你希望得到共鸣的思想，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;并给予适当的意见建议，开解你、抚慰你，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;爱情短暂、友谊却永恒，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;她能够令你感受到比情欲之爱更深层次、&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;更震撼人心的长久感动。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;在婚姻爱情里，她可以是你的枕边人，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如伏波娃之于萨特，不仅只是相爱了一生的伴侣，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;更是事业学术上彼此理解扶持的知己，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;在婚姻事业里做到真正的比翼齐飞，这种红颜知己求之不得，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;只能让命运恩赐，更要自己懂得发现并学会珍惜。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;在婚姻里，往往因为距离太近彼此的缺点暴露无遗，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;因而也失去了与对方沟通的良好愿望，因为这样，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;才使心灵的距离愈来愈远，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;失去了相知相悉、同气相求的可能。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;只有拥有丰富历练的成熟的心灵，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;才深谙把最亲密的人变成红颜知己之道。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;这种感情极之深厚，大家从未想过失去，更没有想过拥有，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;没有明确的定义之前，早已拥有彼此一份真心，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;不象亲情友情爱情那么单纯和易于表述。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;这一种年少的纯情，不适合轻易尝试发展成恋爱，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;因为往往大家深刻留恋的只是年少情怀，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;而不是彼此作为异性的吸引力。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;或许，世事变迁会改变彼此的生活轨迹和命运，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;但是能够这样一生一世，在平淡的365又365天中，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;有个人默默守候着对方的幸福，能够在最后回首的时候，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;想到对方见证了自己成长的每一步而默默绽开微笑，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;或者本身就是一种幸福。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;她也可以仅仅是一个不常谋面的朋友，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;在旅途邂逅、在职场接触甚或通过网络相识，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;彼此没有戒备的心全然开放，可能相见恨晚，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;但始终保持在这个阶段，在各个方面都能够理解彼此、&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;给予精神上最大的支持，却决心永远不跨越界限。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;可以是你曾经深爱过&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;但双方因为种种原因而决定彻底放弃的人。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;多少年心念的痴缠，才能换来彼此间彻底释念、&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;平静却又相知相视会意的一笑。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;比起当年，她可能更深刻的爱你，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;却已经决心不再介入你的生命轨迹。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;此时，做你的红颜知己，就是深深爱你在心口不开，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;只希望永远的保持适当的距离，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;做一个令你感到她的智慧与美&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;都似涓涓细流、款款而来、永无止境的人。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;这样珍贵的关系，需要理智来控制状态，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;不必涉及太过煽情的话题，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;再见就是为了多一份超凡脱俗的情谊，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如何舍得为了一些不够份量的理由，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;失去多年心意相悉的挚友？&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;人非草木，日久可能因情生爱，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;自然应该注意保持安全的时空距离。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如果超过了精神生活的范畴，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;彼此明确感受到超越友谊的需要，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如果有任何激情的接触或对白，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;这时候的知己不再单纯是知己，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;该如何界定就要看事情的发展了。&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
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&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;做男人的红颜知己要有即使爱上他也勇于割断情丝的果断；&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;拥有红颜知己的男人要有理智能确保友谊不会变爱情的自信，&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;双方更有不怕各自配偶了解的坦然，那么婚外的红颜知己、&nbsp;&nbsp;<br>
&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;异性友情可以成为你提升自己的另一种美丽动力。<br></font> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 伤荷 ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2778.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">菡萏香销一叶单，西风过处景凋残。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">余红散尽蝉声远，旧绿飘零玉露寒。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">山倚斜阳云脉脉，蜓牵野</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">茎</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">水弯弯。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">无边愁绪登心岸，欲向荷花泪雨弹。</span></p> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 咏荷 ]]></title>
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初夏芙蓉碧，新荷淡淡香。<br>
清圆随坐卧，翡翠映流光<br>
雨过千杆素，风吹一片凉。<br>
沾泥尘未聚，寂寂水中央。<br> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 上官昭容诗词 ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2770.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[ <span name="3"><strong>上官婉儿诗词</strong></span>【奉和圣制立春日侍宴内殿出翦彩花应制】上官昭容<br>
密叶因裁吐，新花逐翦舒。攀条虽不谬，摘蕊讵知虚。<br>
春至由来发，秋还未肯疏。借问桃将李，相乱欲何如。<br>
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【九月九日上幸慈恩寺登浮图，群臣上菊花寿酒】上官昭容<br>
帝里重阳节，香园万乘来。却邪萸入佩，献寿菊传杯。<br>
塔类承天涌，门疑待佛开。睿词悬日月，长得仰昭回。<br>
<br>
【彩书怨】上官昭容<br>
叶下洞庭初，思君万里馀。露浓香被冷，月落锦屏虚。<br>
欲奏江南曲，贪封蓟北书。书中无别意，惟怅久离居。<br>
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【驾幸三会寺应制】上官昭容<br>
释子谈经处，轩臣刻字留。故台遗老识，残简圣皇求。<br>
驻跸怀千古，开襟望九州。四山缘塞合，二水夹城流。<br>
宸翰陪瞻仰，天杯接献酬。太平词藻盛，长愿纪鸿休。<br>
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【驾幸新丰温泉宫献诗三首】上官昭容<br>
三冬季月景龙年，万乘观风出灞川。<br>
遥看电跃龙为马，回瞩霜原玉作田。<br>
鸾旗掣曳拂空回，羽骑骖驔蹑景来。<br>
隐隐骊山云外耸，迢迢御帐日边开。<br>
翠幕珠帏敞月营，金罍玉斝泛兰英。<br>
岁岁年年常扈跸，长长久久乐升平。<br>
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【游<a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/1015251.htm" target="_blank">长宁公主</a>流杯池二十五首】上官昭容<br>
逐仙赏，展幽情，逾昆阆，迈蓬瀛。<br>
游鲁馆，陟秦台。污山壁，愧琼瑰。<br>
檀栾竹影，飙风日松声。不烦歌吹，自足娱情。<br>
仰循茅宇，俯眄乔枝。烟霞问讯，风月相知。<br>
枝条郁郁，文质彬彬。山林作伴，松桂为邻。<br>
清波汹涌，碧树冥蒙。莫怪留步，因攀桂丛。<br>
莫论圆峤，休说方壶。何如鲁馆，即是仙都。<br>
玉环腾远创，金埒荷殊荣。弗玩珠玑饰，仍留仁智情。<br>
凿山便作室，凭树即为楹。公输与班尔，从此遂韬声。<br>
登山一长望，正遇九春初。结驷填街术，闾阎满邑居。<br>
斗雪梅先吐，惊风柳未舒。直愁斜日落，不畏酒尊虚。<br>
霁晓气清和，披襟赏薜萝。玳瑁凝春色，琉璃漾水波。<br>
跂石聊长啸，攀松乍短歌。除非物外者，谁就此经过。<br>
暂尔游山第，淹留惜未归。霞窗明月满，涧户白云飞。<br>
书引藤为架，人将薜作衣。此真攀玩所，临睨赏光辉。<br>
放旷出烟云，萧条自不群。漱流清意府，隐几避嚣氛。<br>
石画妆苔色，风梭织水文。山室何为贵，唯馀兰桂熏。<br>
策杖临霞岫，危步下霜蹊。志逐深山静，途随曲涧迷。<br>
渐觉心神逸，俄看云雾低。莫怪人题树，只为赏幽栖。<br>
攀藤招逸客，偃桂协幽情。水中看树影，风里听松声。<br>
携琴侍叔夜，负局访安期。不应题石壁，为记赏山时。<br>
泉石多仙趣，岩壑写奇形。欲知堪悦耳，唯听水泠泠。<br>
岩壑恣登临，莹目复怡心。风篁类长笛，流水当鸣琴。<br>
懒步天台路，惟登地肺山。幽岩仙桂满，今日恣情攀。<br>
暂游仁智所，萧然松桂情。寄言栖遁客，勿复访蓬瀛。<br>
瀑溜晴疑雨，丛篁昼似昏。山中真可玩，暂请报王孙。<br>
傍池聊试笔，倚石旋题诗。豫弹山水调，终拟从钟期。<br>
横铺豹皮褥，侧带鹿胎巾。借问何为者，山中有逸人。<br>
沁水田园先自多，齐城楼观更无过。<br>
倩语张骞莫辛苦，人今从此识天河。<br>
参差碧岫耸莲花，潺湲绿水莹金沙。<br>
何须远访三山路，人今已到九仙家。<br>
凭高瞰险足怡心，菌阁桃源不暇寻。<br>
馀雪依林成玉树，残霙点岫即瑶岑。<br>
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【句】上官昭容<br>
势如连璧友，心似香兰人。<br>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 26.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">夏</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;趣&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></font></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">蝉鸣惊夏至，百柳盖江堤。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">远看云拥雪，近听水绿溪。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">晨鸡编草梦，暮雨绣窗西。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt">煮酒闻鲈美，吟诗唱虹霓。</span></p>
<p style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><img alt="" src="http://hiphotos.baidu.com/mingruoxi8583/pic/item/4a88a58d6e628103b31bbad0.jpg"></span></span></p>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 描写家乡的诗 ]]></title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ <p>春泊弋阳&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 唐。许浑</p>
<p>江行春欲半，孤枕弋阳堤。</p>
<p>云暗犹飘雪，寒潮未应溪。</p>
<p>饮猿闻棹<font style="FONT-SIZE: 10px"><font style="FONT-SIZE: 14px">散，飞鸟背船低。</font></font></p>
<p>此路成幽绝，家山巩洛西。</p>
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<p>龟峰精舍&nbsp; 宋&nbsp; 李觏</p>
<p>去县二十里，路平时正春。</p>
<p>四山唯有石，一寺更无尘。</p>
<p>融结疑天意，经营忆古人。</p>
<p>但知安乐处，何必是前身。</p>
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<p>舟发弋阳&nbsp; 明。夏言</p>
<p>县古人烟密，江寒鸥鹭群。</p>
<p>数峰千里到，二水一洲分。</p>
<p>沙嘴渔刁阁，城头戊鼓闻。</p>
<p>我行无俗侣，独鹤与孤云。</p> ]]></description>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 端阳有感 ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2725.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[ <p style="BACKGROUND: white; WORD-BREAK: break-all"><font size="3"><font face="宋体"><span style="COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma">风吹柳月花心动，亭旁紫罗最可怜。一枝独秀抛姿色，半缕香魂卸客船。</span></font></font></p>
<p style="BACKGROUND: white; WORD-BREAK: break-all"><font size="3"><span style="COLOR: black; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma"><font face="宋体">曾经沧海何寻水，除却黄梁莫问天。幽思夜夜谁堪数，又是端阳到眼前。</font></span></font></p>
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		<title><![CDATA[ 沉痛悼念5.12汶川大地震 ]]></title>
		<link>http://blog.tom.com/sfjwjm1966/article/2712.html</link>
		<description><![CDATA[ <div style="BACKGROUND: #e4e8ef; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align="left">大震川河暗，灾临遍野凄。汶川闻浩劫，举国望旗低。<br>
血染巴山日，魂游五月时。中华同哀悼，亿万共伤悲。<br style="mso-special-character: line-break">
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